By not choosing you are still choosing, [[Søren Kierkegaard]] calls this the "the not choice" on the danish book "enten eller" for 1843 A person who does not chose looses itself because the person have not make an active choice but allowed others to make a choice on its behalf. This could also be events or other external factors. The difference is not in what choice we make or if we make the "correct" choice, but if we our self made the choice and with what energy, seriousness and emotion we put into it ## Source [[Book - Life Leadership - Mastering the paradoxes]] Chapter 1